Forgiveness After Infidelity [quiz, video and worksheet]

What is Considered Cheating? Infidelity, cheating on one’s partner, is very hurtful to the person betrayed. Amongst some groups and businesses that profit from infidelity, cheating is justified or even encouraged. They promote the lie that cheating is okay and no one is hurt. However, it makes no difference what others say. A cheating husband, […]
Forgiving A Cheating Spouse Guidelines

People and relationships can and do heal from affairs. Betrayed partners can be forgiving of a cheating spouse. While each infidelity situation is unique, there are some general principles you will find helpful in healing and moving on from such a painful and difficult crisis. The following guidelines only make sense when ALL contact between the cheating […]
How To Stop Cheating And Prevent Infidelity [9 Safeguards]

Learn how to stop the cheating that can ruin your relationship and family Every healthy person can be attracted and fall in love with more than one person. Wanting more of the good things that we already have is part of human nature. This is true about money, honor, romance, and sex. Everyone is a […]
Staying Together For The Kids

Likely, the most difficult decision of all is whether to stay together for the children after infidelity has been discovered and ended.
How To Stop Overthinking After Being Cheated On

Learn how to how to stop overthinking after being cheated on by your cheating husband or cheating wife. How to cope with infidelity Infidelity is a relationship transgression that hurts everyone. Infidelity kills the trust of everyone in the family including the children and extended family. Yet, no one is hurt more than the cheater’s […]
How To Recover From Infidelity

Three reasons couples fail to recover from infidelity Infidelity recovery is possible. In fact, when infidelity recovery is handled properly, in many cases, the couple can rebuild their relationship to be even better than it was before cheating broke them apart. However, infidelity recovery is not guaranteed and must be handled carefully. There are three […]
Surviving Infidelity: The Cheater Takes Responsibility for the Affair

Responsibility — the essential step a cheating wife or cheating husband needs to take! A client of mine, whom I’ll call ‘John,’ is sitting in my office offering me a laundry list of explanations for why he had an adulterous relationship. John, a well-educated and successful businessman is respected in his community for the volunteer […]
Healing From Infidelity When You Have Cheated

Comparing your wife or husband, boyfriend or girlfriend, to the your outside lover is harmful. Don’t do it! There are many steps after the affair that are required for healing. One of the biggest of all the steps you need to take as you and your partner are getting over an affair is psychological healing. […]
3 Questions To Ask Your Unfaithful Spouse

Questions to ask after the affair has ended When a partner is currently involved with an outside lover, they lie. When active cheaters are asked reasonable questions, you cannot trust their answers since they are still involved in a coverup. Only after the affair has ended is there the opportunity to get honest answers to […]