How To Stop Overthinking After Being Cheated On
Learn how to how to stop overthinking after being cheated on by your cheating husband or cheating wife. How to cope with infidelity Infidelity is a relationship transgression that hurts everyone. Infidelity kills the trust of everyone in the family including the children and extended family. Yet, no one is hurt more than the cheater’s […]
Surviving Infidelity: When an Infant is Born into Infidelity
The answer is an unequivocal “Yes.” I know this because I have met men and women in my counseling practice who have come to me to help them deal with this very problem. There is no ‘right time’ for a man or a woman to cheat on his or her partner. However, when a man […]
How To Recover From Infidelity
Three reasons couples fail to recover from infidelity Infidelity recovery is possible. In fact, when infidelity recovery is handled properly, in many cases, the couple can rebuild their relationship to be even better than it was before cheating broke them apart. However, infidelity recovery is not guaranteed and must be handled carefully. There are three […]
Surviving Infidelity: The Cheater Takes Responsibility for the Affair
Responsibility — the essential step a cheating wife or cheating husband needs to take! A client of mine, whom I’ll call ‘John,’ is sitting in my office offering me a laundry list of explanations for why he had an adulterous relationship. John, a well-educated and successful businessman is respected in his community for the volunteer […]
Recovering From Infidelity: “I Hate Cheaters”
When looking for ways to stop an affair, is it a good idea to confront your partners lover? Find out! In my professional work with couples surviving infidelity, I often hear from the infidelity victims, “I hate cheaters,” referring to their cheating partner and the outside lover. And because of this natural hatred, they desire […]
Healing From Infidelity When You Have Cheated
Comparing your wife or husband, boyfriend or girlfriend, to the your outside lover is harmful. Don’t do it! There are many steps after the affair that are required for healing. One of the biggest of all the steps you need to take as you and your partner are getting over an affair is psychological healing. […]
3 Questions To Ask Your Unfaithful Spouse
Questions to ask after the affair has ended When a partner is currently involved with an outside lover, they lie. When active cheaters are asked reasonable questions, you cannot trust their answers since they are still involved in a coverup. Only after the affair has ended is there the opportunity to get honest answers to […]
Should You Forgive or Not Forgive a Cheater? Learn More and Take the Quiz
Forgiveness is an Essential Component to Infidelity Recovery Forgiveness requires that the perpetrator of the cheating take 100% responsibility for the affair, which is proven in ‘word and deed’. Only then can the cheater request forgiveness. And only then can the victim of infidelity consider if he or she wants to forgive. Forgiveness for cheating […]
